Hi Marvin, welcome to the forums 🙂
Unfortunately I’ve had a few distractions since BF4’s been out so you’ll not know me, but hopefully that’ll change in a month or two 🙂
Before we invite someone we normally like to get to know them a bit first, which is for the benefit of both parties and, as cliched as that sounds, it seems to work since probably most of the guys around here have been around for over 10 years. Alternatively you can bug the guys about it over comms and see how long it takes for them to crumble 🙂